Titus 2:11-13

"For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation to all men, instructing us to deny ungodliness and worldly desires and to live sensibly, righteously and godly in the present age, looking for the blessed hope and the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior, Christ Jesus."

Thursday, March 25, 2010

Holding On Tightly

Time. No matter how tightly you try to clutch it, it still slips away.

My babies are becoming less like "babies" every day. In a few days, Isabel and Elliana will be 10 months old. In about a month, they will be the age Amariah was when I became pregnant with our third child. In two months, they will have their first birthday. And just yesterday, I was carrying them in my womb, relishing in the feeling of two babies moving inside me!

It's so cliche, but really... where has the time gone?

Knowing that these are probably our last babies is making this whole growing up process a little more difficult this time around. I look at Abel and Amariah and think about how they have grown far beyond the point of being cradled in my arms or falling asleep on my chest, and I know that Isabel and Elliana are heading for that same place--and that there is no one following behind who will fill that void.

Early in my pregnancy with the twins--just yesterday (Ha!)--my mom said something to me that seems almost prophetic now. She said, "Make sure you enjoy every moment of being pregnant, because you may never get to experience it again." I am so thankful for that simple but wise statement. Because of it, I was able to enjoy every moment of that pregnancy like it was my last--because, for all I knew, it could be. I was able to appreciate the fullness of my womb in a way that I never had before... and in a way that is now helping to satisfy the emptiness of it (i.e. my womb).

Similarly, I have been focusing on fully enjoying every moment of Isabel and Elliana's babyhood, because as I watch it slowly slipping away, I know I can never get it back. I hold them on my lap and look into their sweet faces as their soft little hands touch mine. I know that all too soon they will grow beyond this; and, I wonder: Am I doing enough?

Am I doing enough enjoying to last a lifetime? Am I appreciating every opportunity I have to hold/nurse/kiss/touch/play with my babies? Am I enjoying enough?

A couple days ago I took all four kids to the mall. I can't imagine why one young woman pushing a double stroller while guiding two toddlers through the mall would attract attention (Ha!), but we did. We seemed to be a magnet for kind-hearted elderly people that day. One gentleman approached us as we were about to leave the mall, and he said to me, "I have to tell you this. These are the best days of your life. I look back at my life, and I think, 'Those were the best days....'"

I hope that, like that man, I can one day look back at this time in my life and say without regret, "Those were the best days." I hope that I can know that I did the best job of raising my children--and enjoying them--that I could do. Time will keep on slipping away, and I'm okay with that... as long as I don't let it slip away without me....


Kelly said...

Thank you so much for sharing this!! Definitely touched my heart.

Terry & Tammy said...

Yes, you may be about to leave a chapter in your life behind. However, you are just entering a new era that will fulfill you even more...watching your children become young adults.
Your babyhood is a wonderful memory for me, but the years following are just as wonderful. It just keeps getting better. And by the way, becoming a grandma is the best. So, time marching on is bittersweet. Mostly sweet. Thank you for that. Love You, Mom

Elder Family said...

I am with you some days but what lies ahead is so exciting. The 'conversations' we are starting to have with Noah and him being able to express himself and letting us be a part of what he is thinking. Amazing! As I say enjoy the ride!

Travis said...

What an exciting journey we are in the middle of!

busymomof10 said...

What a precious post! You definitely touched my heart and I have tears in my eyes after reading that post! I feel what you are feeling -- from a different vantage point. My oldest will soon be 25 and my "baby" is five AND A HALF. (I dare not leave off the "half" when I tell someone her age!) Like you, I wonder where the time went? It doesn't seem possible that they my kids are all so old!! I remember fondly the days when I had all of my "chicks tucked under my wings." now, they are fluttering around on their own! I posted recently on my blog about my 5th oldest child getting his driver's license. I am half way through with that chore! Like you, I wish I could make time stand still, so I could enjoy my children more, before they are grown and gone . . . It is amazing how quickly they grow up. Cherish the moments . . . .

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